Recommended Focus: Age 11

Prepare and challenge your child to cherish and commit to purity.

Get Started

To help you get started, this kit includes a guide that offers practical tips and what we consider the best resources on the topic. We’ve provided an audio presentation titled “The Talk” and a Purity Checklist to help your child define appropriate boundaries. In addition, you’ll find a My Purity Commitment Card for your teen to complete. 

Additional Video

• A Video for Parents to Watch With Their Teen

Scripture Verses

• Psalm 19:8
• Psalm 119:9
• Proverbs 20:9
• Matthew 5:8

Recommended Books

• Parenting Today’s Adolescent – Dennis & Barbara Rainey
• Boundaries with Teens – Dr. John Townsend
• Passport to Purity –  Dennis and Barbara Rainey
• Dateable: Are You? Are They? – Justin Lookadoo & Hayley DiMarco
• Choosing to Wait – Laura Gallier
• The Purity Code – Jim Burns
• Teaching Your Children Healthy Sexuality – Jim Burns

Recommended Websites

• https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/parenting/parenting-challenges/sexual-wholeness/talking-to-your-kids-about-sex-why-when-and-how/
• https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/talking-about-sex-and-puberty/
• https://holysexuality.com/

Events

• Workshops: Purity Workshop
• Family Celebration: Purity Ring Celebration

Resources

• Purity Letter
• Purity Guide
• Purity Checklist
• My Purity Card
• The Talk